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What I know now: First-time parents share their baby advice

The first few weeks with a newborn baby can be some of the most moving – but that’s not to say they aren’t challenging too. Being first-time parents opens up a whole new world – you’re learning the practical side of looking after your little one, all while coming to grips with a big lifestyle shift. Only time and experience will tell you just what your baby needs – but, to help in the meantime, we asked parents for the most valuable things they wish they’d known from the beginning. 

Until he or she arrives, it’s hard to know how you will adapt to life with a newborn. From ticking off the baby checklist to swaddling like a pro, in time you’ll find your way – but wouldn’t it be great if you could give one piece of baby advice to your past, expecting self? Here, moms and dads do just that. 

  • 1

    Enjoy the ride.

    Although parenting can be tiring and stressful, the rewards are worth it. As dad of a newborn Craig says: “Being a dad is more challenging than I expected, but more rewarding than I ever imagined. It’s not always easy, but the pay-off is that you get to welcome this amazing new person into your family.” And every day offers opportunities for you to bond, from baby bath time to baby massage

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    Reconsider those newborn essentials.

    Rather than making a long baby essentials checklist before your little one arrives, you can always wait until theyare here. Of course, a new baby will need clothes and nappies right away, but you can buy many other items as and when you need them. "We did a  lot of shopping beforehand and picked up things we thought we'd need, but they were never touched," explains Jenny, mom of one, "Similarly, we didn't buy other bits but found we missed them, although in somes cases our friends and family lent them to us"

  • 3

    Trust your way.

    There are so many parenting styles and so many pieces of advice for new parents, but remember to trust your way. "We found that a lot of people were a little too keen to give their opinions, which were very strong,” says Cameron, dad of one. “Your instinct is usually correct”

  • 4

    Remember yourselves

    When your baby arrives, he or she can soon become the center of your family, but it's important not to forget to take care of yourself. You need just as much love and support as the new addition to your family, as Cameron continues, "I would wholeheartedly suggest that new parents remember to focus on each other, rather than just focusing on the baby"

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    Consistency is key.

    Although there are different ways of parenting, you will find you’ll soon get into your own familiar routine. “It really helps babies if they know what to expect and understand what’s coming,” says Laura, mom of two. "It also helped me enormously as a new parent." Bathtime can be a good starting point for a routine and the rest of your day can fit around it

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    Welcome the change in priorities. 

    When you have a newborn baby, your life changes in an instant. With that special new addition to your family, many chores will slide down your to-do list to make way for this new, important little person in your life. “At the end of the day, as long as your baby is happy and healthy, that's all that matters – the housework can wait,” says Sanchia, mom of one

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