The Letter Challenge: dealing with bullies

If your child has experienced bullying, we hope these anti-bullying activities will help them. Use The Letter Challenge video, activity and action checklist to give your daughter or son the confidence they need to put bullying behind them.

Ways to deal with bullying

Rumour spreading, gossiping, excluding others, teasing about looks or weight – sometimes young people feel pressured to just ignore this kind of behaviour or brush it off as a 'joke'. But words can hurt and sometimes it's important to speak out. With The Letter Challenge, we aim to empower your daughter or son to be strong and stand up to bullies.

Using sentence-starters as a prompt, this activity encourages young people to see the bigger picture about bullying. Your child may not realise it, but often a bully can be rather insecure. It might be because they can't control things in their own life that they feel the need to pick on others. But, of course, that's no excuse.

The Letter Challenge: write a letter about being bullied

Sometimes it's hard to stand up for ourselves when we're teased or bullied. Watch The Letter Challenge video about Chloe with your daughter or son, and then think about how you'd deal with a similar experience by writing a letter to yourselves. You can do the activity together or encourage your child to do it on their own and share it with you afterwards.

How to take The Letter Challenge

1. Think about how you'd feel if you were being bullied and how you would want to respond to a bully.

2. Get a piece of paper and write a letter to yourself, or download 'The Letter Challenge' PDF here. Use the format we've laid out and fill in the gaps at the end of each sentence. If you find it hard to think of the words, you could draw how you feel or what you plan to do, like a comic strip.

 

Dear Me,

There have been times when someone has said mean things about the way I look. I don't like when this happens because... (Write your thoughts here)

Bullying someone about the way they look is hurtful and unhelpful because... (Write your thoughts here)

In future, I plan to stand up to bullying about looks by... (Write down strategies you plan to use)

Sign Here:...(Write your name)

 

3. Share your letters with each other and talk about how your child might stand up for themselves if they were being bullied

4. Help them practise what they might say to a bully in a firm, confident voice, and discuss what they could do if they see someone being bullied. Think about the best ways to stand up to the behaviour.